Steps in Choosing Family Outfits for a Timeless Look
As a photographer, one of the most common questions I get from families before a session is: “What should we wear?”And it's a great question—because your outfits can truly elevate the entire feel of your photos. The right clothing choices not only help everyone look their best but also create a cohesive, timeless look that makes your images feel like art.
Here are my top outfit recommendations to help you and your family feel confident, coordinated, and camera-ready.
Step One: Begin with Your Vision
Before you think about outfits, take a moment to envision the final result. Where will these photos live—on the walls of your home, in a fine art album, or framed on your mantel? Think about the mood you’re drawn to: soft and romantic, warm and cozy, minimal and modern. Your wardrobe should reflect and support that vision.
Step Two: Choose your dress!
This is your moment, too.
Find a dress that makes you feel incredible. One that flatters your shape, moves gently in the breeze, and feels true to your personal style. Whether it’s soft and flowing, structured and elegant, or earthy and relaxed—your dress becomes the foundation for the entire color story.
Stores for Mom:
Sample Dresses: (click on the image for the dress link)
Step Three: Choose a Color Palette, Not Matching Outfits
Gone are the days of everyone in jeans and white t-shirts! Instead of matching, coordinate your colors. Pick 2–3 complementary tones and build outfits around them. Think earth tones, neutrals, or soft pastels—colors that photograph beautifully and don’t compete with your faces.
Example palettes:
Soft neutrals: Cream, beige, tan, dusty rose
Cool tones: Navy, soft gray, sage, ivory
Step Four: Choose outfits for the rest of the family
When planning outfits for the rest of the family, start by shopping your own closets. Look for versatile neutrals—like light tan pants or a classic white button-up—that can easily complement your own look. Lay everything out alongside your dress to see how the pieces work together. This will help you decide what feels cohesive, what you want to keep, and which items you may need to add to complete the overall look.
Sample looks for the rest of the family: (click on the image for the link)
Step Five: Layer + Add Texture
Layers and textures bring depth to your photos. Think knit sweaters, denim jackets, linen dresses, corduroy pants, or a flowy scarf. Avoid stiff fabrics or anything that’s too tight or shiny—natural movement and comfort are key.
Step Six: Think About Shoes & Accessories
Yes, shoes matter! Clean, neutral-toned shoes are best—avoid sneakers with neon soles or worn-out shoes unless they’re intentionally styled. Accessories like hats, suspenders, hair bows, or a simple necklace can add interest without overwhelming the look.
Plan Ahead & Try On Everything
Lay outfits out a few days before your session and do a full try-on. This gives you time to make changes, steam out wrinkles, and ensure everyone’s clothes fit well. Bonus: it helps avoid last-minute stress!
Final Tip: Ask Me!
I’m always happy to help you finalize outfits or give feedback. Some of my clients even text me photos of potential options—and I love it! Together, we’ll make sure your session feels effortless and looks amazing.